DIY at Your Wedding: What Actually Makes Sense

DIY at your wedding can be amazing. Or … a little chaotic. The difference? Intentional choices.

When lovers want to DIY, I always ask: “Does this add joy or create stress?” The answer makes all the difference.

A Real Example: Theresa & Susa

Theresa & Susa wanted their wedding to feel personal, so they added DIY touches that reflected their style and personalities—like custom signage, table decor (they grew the pumpkins!), and little details their guests would notice.

But they didn’t DIY everything. They left time-sensitive elements—sound, setup, and ceremony flow—to professionals.

The result:

A couple, kind of relaxed.

Guests fully present.

A wedding day that flowed.

How to Decide What to DIY

1. Choose projects you love

If it’s something you genuinely enjoy making or designing, go for it! Joyful DIY adds personality to your day.

2. Skip anything critical

If a detail failing could affect timing, logistics, or guest experience, leave it to professional vendors.

3. Keep the big picture in mind

Your wedding day is short. DIY should add joy, not create tasks that steal your attention from the moment.

Wedding Planner Verdict

DIY at your wedding works best when it’s intentional. Pick projects that excite you, leave the stressful stuff to pros, and stay present for what really matters: celebrating your love.

Even small, intentional DIY touches can make your wedding feel uniquely yours — without overwhelming the day.